I’m trying to figure out a better system for splitting up chores at home. Right now it feels like some people are doing way more than others and it’s causing some tension. What works for your family? Do you have a schedule or just wing it? Any tips for making sure everyone pulls their weight without it turning into arguments?
My kid started caring more about chores once we turned some of them into challenges. Last month they timed themselves cleaning their room and now they try to beat their record each week.
We also do this thing where completed tasks earn points toward family movie night picks or staying up later on weekends. Nothing fancy, just a simple chart on the fridge.
Some weeks work better than others honestly. There are still days where I end up doing most everything, but overall there’s less pushback than when I just assigned random tasks.
We tried rotating weekly but it got confusing. Now everyone has their set jobs based on what they hate least.
Kids handle their own laundry and bathrooms. We tackle kitchen cleanup together after dinner. Works better than keeping track of who did what when.
We’re still figuring this out too since my kiddo is only 5. Right now I give them simple things like putting their plate in the sink or matching socks while I do laundry.
What I’m curious about is how you handle it when kids get older and have more responsibilities. Do you rotate who does what each week or does everyone have their own set tasks?
I worry about creating battles over chores but also want my child to learn that everyone helps keep the house running. How do you balance being fair without keeping score of every little thing?